After she hung up I asked my fiance if I made the wrong decision and je said it's my wedding and I get to decide eventually but I knew he said that because he's biased. Or possibly become a divorce soon. Their pranks went from wildly inappropriate to outright dangerous. they took away an asthmatics inhaler which could potentially lead to death, and youre asking if youre the AH for uninviting them to your wedding? NTA your family aren't trying to bond with your fiance. Knowledge and wisdom are threatening to people with small minds. He couldve literally died for a prank. My fathers cousin among them, even if taken to hospital. I dont know what they intend to prove but they only proved they are mean AH. Her family is toxic. Hiding his medication as a prank is the lowest of the low. This is curious that your siblings are not on your side . Starting a married life together is supposed to be a wonderful thing, it's not worth letting it get soured by people who's opinions don't even matter like yours does. When the complain have him directly tell them to stop whining and take it like men do. tell him that its not his fault , he probably feels that its his fault but you need to assure him that its not his fault that these members of your family are just a bunch of idiotic stupid close minded people. Ive been nagging him to go to the doctor to get it checked out and he has refused for months, even though it would be free. Risking death because your family is shit just isnt worth it in the long run. I'd be livid, and they would stay uninvited. Seriously. He still went camping with them after months (years?) AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? Thats criminal. YTA for ever allowing it to happen and if you continue to. What they have done to him is downright CRIMINAL. Also you are not ruining the relationship with your family. Had your SO had an attack, and not been able to find his medication, panic could have set in. You're totally right, they were finding out if they could judge him over being a "brainwashed liberal commie" is the vibe I'm getting. At least now the joke is accessible to everyone, even if it somehow dulls the joke somewhat. Like men. Your family has driven the wedge, not Tim. Oh Im sure they wanted to know about whether he would enforce gender inequality and support the patriarchy. Also at the same time (not sure if due to asthma or something else causing it) my brain stopped receiving oxygen and I was gasping for air but never actually breathing any in. In addition to that, YTA for letting things get this bad. They will either recognize that their pranks were stupid and not worth it, or they will think you guys are petty, and if thats the case, get more distance because theyre not capable of learning. Elope! Not the husbands. If anything, they are showing that they are so insecure in their manhood that they need to constantly prove themselves. not slashing his tires and hiding his inhaler the latter of which could literally have caused a medical emergency. Get away from these people and their toxic masculinity. Create this boundary now. Ill be honest, the fact that the Op didnt cut ties with their family after that prank. Honey, you are merely the first to cut him off, so you will suffer for it from family who will see you as the wrong doer and try to get you back into his clutches, but gradually others will also become disillusioned and see your example and also cut him off and things will get better. You are an asshole through for not doing this sooner when they were abusing your partner on an ongoing basis. That's a girl color! I think the best thing you could do for yourself is to go no-contact with your father. Men are also entitled to show emotions and have a caring side. But by cutting him out you're relationship with the other family members may have to change as well. These are excellent words to throw back in their faces. Maybe see what your cousin has to say (BC the nature of his panicking, it might be that he wants to genuinely apologise, at least that's how I've read it,) but as far as I'm concerned you'd be better cutting them all off. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. That fucking crosses a line. I loved her at first but quickly I realized she wasnt everything I had thought. Dont let them go to your wedding. Like good for you for uninviting them but they had to threaten to kill your husband for you to do that? He stole my moms car a few times and stole from me. "What type of relationship does your dad have with your siblings? The AITA mods have nothing to do with this ban and cannot assist in resolving. OP, you need to absolutely stamp out your family's behaviour or risk losing a great guy who sounds as if he would go to hell and back for you. So I 28f am getting married to the love of my life. Also it sounds like your mom is desensitised to it which is sad. NTA. Family up and ruined the relationship with her and her apparently saintly fiance who still wants to marry her after all of this and hasn't had these people arrested. For no reason. Super toxic. Also wtf will they put any potential Male children you might have through as well, under the pretence of helping then man up? Getting uninvited from your wedding is nothing. Or messes with someones health as a prank? That could have been fatal. Stand your ground and move on with your life. What if hed had an asthma attack and died, thats murder not a prank. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? The toxic masculinity is strong in this one. All the best to you both with your marriage! Toxic masculinity is so fucking dangerous to all of us. Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. NTA. northwest livestock facebook page; missing chicago man pueblo county jail number pueblo county jail number NTA. OP would also be justifying their behavior by joining in on the "pranks.". They clearly dont respect you or your ability to choose a partner either. Pranks where people can legitimately die are rarely funny. Managing your family is your job, and you were somehow ok with the constant insults, belittling questions, slashing of tires, etc. Time to tell dad that people find him to be a thug and a criminal and don't respect him because he treats people badly. Literally willing to risk everything to be with you. plus she didnt care about me paying 90 so i dont see why shed let me off the hook now. Things like tattle tail and what not is a typical response from bullies and reading all this has bullies written all over it. Point out your brother as an example of how they have failed. NTA. I would cut them off and not look back. YTA for allowing this to go for as long as it did. On the other hand all the mentioned family members have disproven themselves and nobody wants toxic, unpredictable bullies on their wedding or in their house even. Throughout my life he was forcing me to take sides in wars I should've never been involved in but at 19 I finally refused to take a side. Timmy will never feel comfortable and will always be on guard for the next shit show. This could have escalated into something as harsh as attempted murder. I think it's great to forgive assholes if they stop, and family unity is important, but if someone is an asshole and will continue to be an asshole and refuses to stop being an asshole, they definitely should be kept as far away as possible. It's like they're out of It's Always Sunny. I was still taking care of my younger brothers. Of course youre NTA. Also, ask them in case of your fiancs asthma getting worse medically that he needed to be rushed to hospital which off them would be manly enough to cover all the bills and charges. Agreed. What respect can you have for the family members pushing you to ignore this violent, aggressive and potentially harmful behavior? Those are the only answers any concerned parties need to know. Id go no contact if my family acted like that. Why aren't you protecting your fiance from these assholes? NTA but why would you let it escalate to this point? NTA. There is also a difference between a prank and stealing a serious medical device, such as an inhaler. They might show up anyway and cause an embarrassing scene for "pranks" and revenge. Someone questioning their own sanity and ability to differentiate between harmful bullying and harmless Pranking. This is not pranking, its cruel bullying and taking away your fiancs inhaler could have had deadly consequences. I basically told him that if he is considering not coming then dont even bother. I hated every bit of it. Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. NTA They slashed his car tires, made him play chess (How does that even determine manly status the hell? Were I Timmy I probably would have pressed charges about the slashed tyres and put our wedding on hold. Seriously consider if they're going to do this to your son, and if you want this energy in your life. The only excuse is that she has been raised in this toxic environment and does not realise how bad it is. Do they realize that your fiance could have died? And maybe, just maybe your dad and other family members involved will get some personal growth out of this and grow up to be a proper men. Right. Dad has high expectations, but he is never mean about it (you won't even know you're tested). If they agree to the challenge, and complete it, youll consider re-inviting them to the wedding. These aren't "tests", this is your family being major fucking AHs. NTA - hold your ground. Nta. O no someone went to post secondary education. I do not understand how they were not uninvited after the tire slashing. Their toxic masculinity is gross too. Thats near abuse. If my partners familt slashed my tirrs as a "test" I would have RUN from you and your toxic family! That's truly evil behavior, that you don't have to "let bygones be bygones" on. If your mom doesnt see your side dont invite her either. Edited to add although YTA for letting it carry on I actually mean ESH. I mean, they sound basically awful (and essentially bullies) anyway, but that pitches them from 'boorish' to 'sociopathic'. She cussed me out for prioritizing my hateful and cold hearted brothers over my stepdad and showing him that I'm not worthy of his grace which was really really hurtful for me to hear. At a guess, because lil Timmy isn't one of "them". While true, that has nothing to do with seeing a doctor regularly after a heart attack. Unbeknownst to me for most of my parent's married life, they had issues and finally divorced when I was 12. I told him no because I need to go to work. They have proven they are willing to risk his life. Back your fiance and be in his corner. And even then, if someone gets seriously freaked out (as opposed to just startled), you apologize and never do it again. Pranking is meant to be HARMLESS fun. OP, the men in your family are the living definition of toxic masculinity. A friend of mine DIED from an asthma attack!!! Enough internet for today. Things only got crazier when my dad and his wife eloped behind everyones backs and i found out about it on Facebook and then for years now has told me that its my fault they didnt have a wedding. I'd have dipped a long time ago and if they don't stop, her bf will too before long. The family is lucky they haven't called for a restraining order. Obviously Tim went on that camping trip with them for you, he clearly does not like these people. NTA its bullshit toxic masculinity, men do not test each other like this unless they have frail egos themselves. They are too manly to go to the wedding. Your only punishment is not coming to the wedding? NTA they took the pranks way too far. They dont deserve to be at the wedding. OOP can fucking choke. Nothing is manlier than standing your ground and protecting yourself and those you love. How could one write this and not think they were the asshole. You know their bullying will only get worse with you standing up for him. Also expect your mom might say she isn't going if they don't. Thats not pranking. If its not too late/theres texted proof, it seems like a good time to call the police and also to file a small claims suit. "I'm getting married, I want my kids there, as well as my nieces/nephews, and a handful of other kids from both families.". So according to your family, I (a woman) am a man cause I can fix tires, cause obviously that's a manly man thing and not just a question of interests and acquired skills? Your dad should be proud if he actually values those things and it truly is why tested your fianc. Damn. The recipient should be laughing just as hard as the prankster and any observers. Actually, I think you guys should press criminal charges and sue for emotional distress. i think you should do more than just uninvite them to the wedding honestly. Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. They literally slashed his tires? Hiding inhaler is not a joke and slashing his car tires, i assume they paid money to get things right? How can four people be so fucked in the head to think it is acceptable to hide much-needed medication from someone?! Your whole family including your mom sound like awful human beings. Enjoy the rest of your life with your fianc. Typical snowflakes if you ask me. It has been great having her back and we've gotten so close again. I could definitely see these assholes trying to cover something like that up. What if you two have a little boy with asthma? Your fiance could press charges! Yes but then he wouldn't seem MANLY to them and wouldn't have PROVEN himself if he couldn't go fix ALL 4 tires BY HIMSELF. If I were the step-dad, I'd pull all my wedding funds. I told him I need to know if he is coming to walk me down the aisle and have our dance and he said he doesnt know and we will see. I wouldnt want them near me on my wedding day. All of them. Live your life, be Happy, graduate, write on reddit, do whathever you want with YOUR Life. You know what OP's group of male family members are doing? What they did was just so cruel. Its a messy situation and it will most likely be a rocky marriage as your family set the tone for it with their nonsense trying to test your partners manliness. Tell them that real men don't need such immature posturing. lol they have lost respect for your fiance? The wedding is just the first step, OP. Don't let his presence tarnish a day that is meant to celebrate how amazing and strong you are. Mom needs to be told to butt out or shes next to be banned. I hope she learns to put him before her extended family. I'd not want them anywhere near me. Also- are they actually sorry for what they did? Just because theyre family doesnt mean you should allow them to hurt you. I'm almost done and it's been a lifelong dream of my mother's to have her children graduate from college. Support your fianc and ditch your shitty family. NTA. NTA - those things might be what they do to test people but it isn't what "men do". Sounds sick to me all around. YTA. What they did is beyond bullying and shedding a few crocodile tears shouldn't give them a pass. Not to mention, it would be a pain in the A to replace them and probably balance them without the equipment of a shop - still possible but probably take a lot longer. Like seriously, do you have any idea what it's like not be able to to breathe? You need to take your fianc and get the hell away from the pack, because theyre already turning on you now that youre stepping out of line and it will only get more vicious. Either hire security or elope. So much this. This is not what men do its what arrogant and immature assholes do. im sure OP has tried to shut it down before. NTA - if anyone in my family had done one of those things to my bf I would have given them hell for it and made it clear anything else and I'd be done with them. From the get go they assumed that Tim is "less of a manly man than them" so all those "tests and pranks" are just there to humiliate him and stroke their own over inflated ego. They're not joking, they are asshole bullies. The straight chess and hypothetical situations could be ruled as pranks and family making sure the new guy isgood enough(very archaic I know). Frankly, who cares if they respect Tim, the question is, does Tim respect them. Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. What did they expect to accomplish? That's some courage, at 22. Then, still exclusively breathing through the straw, they must race in panic upstairs/across the house/down the driveway/whatever distance back to you for help. . Enough people in general for today. 8.6K views, 64 likes, 0 loves, 68 comments, 3 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Addiction: AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. What if he had an asthma attack and couldn't breathe because he couldn't find his inhaler? That was over ten years ago and we all still laugh about it. I can verify that it is nearly impossible for anyone - even real men whatever tf that means - to remove, replace, properly align & balance an entire set of tires without at least a small shop lift. but what if i dont? OP you gotta remind your family of that point right there. This is absolutely mind-boggling to me, considering everything. But my point stands that this is gaslighting and the AHs are so obvious its painful. Destroying property too? Don't just uninvite these people from your wedding; uninvite them from your and your fianc's lives. Honestly I would elope and not tell them and start getting closer with his family and make distance with your family. NTA. Is this the future you want? Right?! NTA. "My stepdad did what he could "I literally freaked out because I definitely want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried A woman has been slammed after uninviting her stepdad from her wedding, . Because I'm sure as hell don't think it will stop at the wedding. And really if they do anything else criminal Id consider reporting them. She wont. Those guys are assholes. Youre right - they were hazing him. Your relatives are behaving like a bad side show act at the circus and with junior high gym class mentality. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! They all sound like terrible people. He was my hero. Theyre not used to anyone standing up to them. NTA and you made the right decision sticking up for your fianc as he is obviously madly in love with you to put up with your families bullshit. Personally I would go no contact with dad and let him lay in the bed he made. Your family members' actions (all of them, not just the inhaler stuff) are idiotic, unwarranted, and demeaning. In the eyes of the law, if your fianc had died, they could be charged with manslaughter or even murder. Must be tire then! Assuming the sides of the tires were cut there is no plugging those. Screw this chick. Then NC. Stand your ground; theyre wrong, and ridiculously immature. Yeah, NTA. They have absolutely no right to keep that information from their patients, but it happens. Tell your husband he'll be more stressed if it turns out to be a serious condition. This is a serious condition and not something to prank with. Asshole I f25 along with my two brothers Dean & Kevin (both 30s) went through rough time during our parents divorce, mom got married to my stepdad and we lived with him for years. Im surprised youre the first person to say all this. Stick with your fianc, start your own family and use them as examples of what not to turn out like. After the tire slashing I would have called the cops and gone NC. Your family straight trash sorry. NTA. Slashing tires and hiding inhalers are not harmless goofs. Theyll make your partners life a misery and at some point youd be forced to choose so you might as well choose your husband-to-be upfront. OP needs to ask her dad what hed think if her future MIL learned she had what could be a fatal allergy to nuts & decided to slip her some to test her womanliness. Not OP, but I've experienced something very similar. Leave these people far behind! They will do something worse to pay you back on your wedding day. This enraged him and our relationship never recovered. It's only tattling if Tim does it. Can he forgive them? Your fiance doesn't deserve this. This doesn't mean men aren't ignored & gaslit by doctors because they are. ESH. Id tolerate an event with lots of people where they were there but I didnt have to speak to them. The first rule of practical jokes is that they should never have a victim. NTA. NTA. Im surprised Timmy stuck around for as long as he did. anything that involves irreparable destruction of property cannot be called a prank. NTA, this is taking toxic masculinity to another level. They likely thought my claims of abuse were unfounded at best and malicious at worst. Sheesh.. As a registered nurse, all I can say is that is despicable and they could have potentially put his life in danger. You need to make your choice now, its your family - who will probably run off any other man you bring home unless they're as messed up as your family - or your fiance. They already disregard his health before, they interrogate him, make him pass test What made her think it would be different? Or the time they slashed his tired??? I'd contact the cops. NTA, at first I thought a couple pranks like whoopee cushions could be funny but hiding his inhaler is absolutely not a prank. Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. I would have been gone the moment I realized my "partner" thought any of this was okay. Buy wedding insurance first, add the cancellation policy, then cancel so lost deposits are covered by insurance wedsafe.com (am a wedding planner). Its not like they had OPs permission or OPs husband is a toddler that cannot speak up for himself. Once upon a time I went to Vegas with my boyfriend and I thought it would be hilarious to tell all of my friends that I got married while I was there. AITA for telling my (step)dad that his kids are not welcome in my life ever again? reddit, would i be the asshole if i uninvited her? After I graduated my mom and I repaired our relationship and now are best friends. These guys are bullies. Marrying him is your decision, not theirs. i might be the asshole here for overreacting. Your fianc doesnt need to prove anything to any of them. Your family is awful and you just went along with it! So, he leaned into my husband's strengths, which was his extreme empathy and ability to navigate social situations and deal with mental health issues (husband is a social worker now, was studying to be one at the time). If it was me, they would be the last people on my mind to invite to a wedding." "They dont deserve your time. He said that he didn't reply but later I got a call from my mom yelling at me calling me hurtful stuff saying I was acting like an ungrateful b by excluding her husband from the wedding after everything he's done for me, I told her that my brothers threatened not to come which pushed me to make this difficult dicision because if it was for me I'd have everyone there. At this point, I'd be uninviting mom too. Tires aren't free. Exactly. if all four tires are slashed you can call insurance to cover it as an attack. Your wedding day will be one big joke to them. If you give in, they'll keep thinking that their bullying is acceptable or funny. I agree, OP should've stepped in the first time it happened. He fights everything that's put in place to help him and rejects the idea that he's actually making things much worse for himself and for his relationships. I moved out and left them to take care of my younger brothers by themselves and went full no contact for years. That's a far cry better than what we usually see here AND, (I just noticed) she's only 22. Presumably because she's a little lady who doesn't understand "real man" humor (ugh). How manly would their intake photos look. I hope not. ", Then why tf did you ask him if you knew he was gonna be biased lmao. Sounds like Tim is the only real man among them. I have been rude and made my fair share of mistakes. My friends and I, all Afab and babyfaced enough to look like we were 18-25 once got asked what was holding up the car in a concerned tone while we were trying to change a tire. Bygones my ass! I hope you and your soon to be husband have a wonderful life together OP! pranks have no lasting impact, aside from a shared laugh in the future. Does anyone have Ventolin to keep them alive until the ambulance gets here? A girl I know died because she was alone in her hotel room and couldn't reach her inhaler. You need to stick up for your husband and cut contact with these abusive freaks. Hiding the inhaler was criminal! You should do Timmy a favor and choose between him and your toxic family. Fuck 'em. To be fair, it is quite likely that they have bullied her for her entire life too. I'm really scared that your family will accidentally kill someone with this mentality. The men in your life are toxic. Who supports you and your dreams? And why you let things go so far? You need to do more than not invite them from the wedding. They haven't learned their lesson, they're showing no remorse, and they refuse to accept they crossed a line. They're being mean and trying to downplay it. These aren't pranks. Sounds like a bunch of dumb hicks bullying a city boy. Nothing worse than telling a funny story and everyone goes quiet and looks sad at you. I suffer asthma and it is not something to joke about. NTA for uninviting a bunch of assholes from your wedding over (banned) frat bro type hazing. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Nothing about this is typical and they are just gonna fucking stop attempting to gaslight you about it. I scrolled too far to read this. A lot. NTA, pranks are all too often used as an excuse to be AH's, let this be a lesson to them that you wont tolerate their BS. not let this ruin my relationship with my family. I would leave them uninvited and strongly consider NC for the future. My dads girlfriend at the time started getting more and more demanding. His lips are turning purple! All they're doing is alienating you and your man from the rest of the family. God I hate people. This is not pranking, it's abuse. If your mother ends up not going at least she has made her choice and you know that. My dad taught us how to change oil, mom taught us how to change tires, and our entire lives we helped them with home projects as big as installing a pocket door in our old house. A's far as the wedding issue. Uninviting her is not the solution to your problem. Somehow, they dont understand how serious their actions are. This post has been removed due to the status of the original poster's account. Except that the fiance's side of the family hasn't done anything wrong that we know of, and maybe OP and her fiance want a wedding. Be basically disowned his great grandparents and is very mad that my mom still does stuff with them. Was thinking the same. I hope that they see the error of their ways and apologized to Tim but until then, I guess you might have to go no contact. Fuck that that's why I have AAA. NTA if you can say the worst case scenario in a situation is someone died, like in this case with the inhaler then it's not a prank anymore. 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